Many factors are shaking entire industries to their core right now. Lack of customer trust, uncertain supply chains, and geopolitical shifts are contributing to the unease being felt by leaders at the executive level. Many are being told to be steadfast and resilient. But resilience isn’t what the world is requiring of leaders right now.
I’ve always hated the way resilience was used within leadership. It gives the idea that people and processes need to remain unchanging and unyielding. Through this lens, resilience stands in complete opposition to innovation, and this is where the real threat lies. Organisations that cling to what has worked in the past decade, year or even month are going to find themselves left behind as change accelerates around them. It is in this moment that I offer you some Vedic wisdom: “Be the river, not the rock.”
The river adapts to its environment. It shifts course when conditions change, finds new pathways when obstacles emerge, and continues moving forward without losing sight of where it is ultimately heading. By contrast, the rock resists. It stands firm, but over time, the pressure around it intensifies. This distinction matters deeply for executive leaders navigating the current climate because many organisations are unknowingly rewarding a version of resilience that is quietly becoming counterproductive.
In many executive environments, resilience has become synonymous with endurance at all costs. Leaders are expected to absorb increasing pressure without slowing down, continue delivering outcomes despite shrinking resources and maintain composure while navigating relentless change. On the surface, this can appear admirable, but underneath, it often masks avoidance. Difficult conversations are delayed. Strategic questions remain unexplored. Leaders continue pushing forward using outdated assumptions because stopping to reassess and reflect feels too risky in an environment already defined by pressure.
This is where leadership compression begins to emerge. As volatility increases, decision-making narrows. Leaders become reactive rather than reflective. The focus shifts from shaping the future to simply surviving the next quarter. What often follows is a culture where exhaustion is mistaken for commitment and rigidity is mistaken for strength. Yet neither resilience in its traditional form nor avoidance disguised as resilience will equip organisations for the complexity now unfolding.
So what’s the answer when resilience is no longer a hallmark of good leadership, but something toxic?
The antidote to toxic resilience lies in embracing adaptability. Leaders must learn to let go of the need to control every outcome and instead focus on what they can influence: their (and their team’s) approach to any external stimulus or demand.
Here’s how to shift from being the rock to becoming the river:
Be conscious of what you control
In assessing any change, decide what you control and what lies outside of your power to change. Consciously choose to do the things that you can control in order to implement the change initiative. You can influence the mindset, motivation and effort of your team, but you don’t control it. So, decide how you will influence them to implement the change.
Adapt to external circumstances
Many external forces, such as government policies or market disruptions, are beyond a leader’s control. Rather than resisting these changes, leaders can focus on how they and their teams respond. What adjustments can be made to align with the new reality? How can processes, strategies, or goals evolve to flow with the current instead of against it? How can these changes enhance your strategy? What are the opportunities?
Choose to evolve not revolve
What will help you, your team and the organisation evolve rather than continuing to go around in circles or tread water? Make the evolutionary choice and involve your team in defining what this is, why it’s important and how to move forward as a group. You’ll increase motivation, a connection to purpose and engagement in the process.
Redefine resilience
True resilience is not about enduring at all costs; it’s about being responsive and resourceful. Leaders can benefit from setting aside the endless pursuit of “doing more” and instead focusing on “being more.” This means cultivating practices that replenish energy to make consciously courageous choices implemented with compassion. Building in time during the year for regular team reflection, regeneration and resetting is critical to provide space for the 3 actions listed above. This is how trust is built, and humanity in leadership is nurtured.
So what is a more accurate representation of your organisation right now: the river (adaptability) or the rock (unyielding resilience)? The river does not survive because it is stronger than the landscape around it. It survives because it understands how to respond and adapt to it.
The question for executive leaders is no longer whether resilience is enough. The question is whether your approach to adaptive leadership is developed enough for what comes next.
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